my relationship trend circle:- ever since
Attraction- Meeting for coffee- Test for little favors/ do goods-Super caring- Super attraction- Do what the other likes to do and we hate- Sleep- Sleep everyday- Man gets bored- I say something goes unheard, same thing told by else is revelation- Less conversation- Mistaking it as stability- Taking for granted- Less time- Less meeting-little arguments-Mention of commitment-Butterflies in the stomach- Embarrassed at being spotted together/ new attraction-Lesser talk-More talked about-The end
About commitment:I was married once. It was a fake lottery ticket.
Someone in school said in a moral science class- 'Marriage is a gamble'
Someone said- 'Marriage is sacred'
Someone waking up corrected- 'Marriage is a sacred gamble'
I still believe in commitment.
I judge its institutional value not by my past experience but by what it really should be. I try to reason the rule, the need for such an institution. I have come up with only one justification.
Marriage is beyond the 'I'. It should happen when 'we' becomes bigger than 'I'.
It has nothing to prove to the world. It has nothing to do with the self. It only has a commitment to that 'we' and to give it a seal so that every thought, every decision, and the decision of every law in the whole world are dependent on that 'we'. It is much greater than proving that 'I' love. 'I' care and 'I' am yours.
That's why I also say one should know ones partner before getting married. The laws of marriage should make getting married more difficult.To know if one is ready for such level of commitment
One should be treated to small trailers of the effort required.
Living together should be encouraged
It may save many of us from buying fake lottery tickets, find more marriages that have the made in heaven tag and understand the real science behind morals
